Judgment
"Look around you at others, and their striving, their desperation, and the lack of depth and meaning that they demonstrate. People around you will teach you the results of living life without Knowledge. In countless ways they will demonstrate this. So do not be in judgment of them. Do not condemn them, for they are teaching you to value your own integrity. They are demonstrating that nothing else will satisfy this or take its place." [1]
"Much of what holds people back in life is their unresolved feelings and judgments regarding their relationships, even relationships in the distant past. These feelings and judgments act as a kind of dam, holding people’s feelings back, arresting them in place, influencing their perception of other people and disabling them from being able to be emotionally open and accessible to their children and to other people." [2]