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“The truth of any relationship can be known at the outset.”<ref>''Wisdom from the Greater Community Volume II'', Chapter 6: [https://www.newmessage.org/the-message/volume-5/wisdom-greater-community-volume-2/what-is-discernment Discernment]</ref> | “The truth of any relationship can be known at the outset.”<ref>''Wisdom from the Greater Community Volume II'', Chapter 6: [https://www.newmessage.org/the-message/volume-5/wisdom-greater-community-volume-2/what-is-discernment Discernment]</ref> | ||
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| + | "At the outset it is necessary to learn discernment. Why spend five years finding out | ||
| + | that you really cannot be married to this person when you could have found out in five days or, as your | ||
| + | discernment becomes more refined, in five minutes? Many people say after five years, if they have | ||
| + | discovered that their relationship cannot proceed and cannot grow, 'I knew this at the beginning, but I | ||
| + | would not listen to what I knew.' They could see these elements in the other person, and they could see | ||
| + | their incompatibilities, but they did not want to look because they wanted to be with that person. They | ||
| + | wanted the experience of being together. They wanted to escape loneliness and isolation. Yet it is far | ||
| + | better to be alone than to be improperly engaged with another. Improper engagement, if it is | ||
| + | maintained, will destroy your motivation and your life force. This is very true."<ref>''Relationships & Higher Purpose'', Chapter 12: [https://www.newmessage.org/the-message/volume-2/relationships-higher-purpose/establishing-meaningful-relationships Establishing Relationships]</ref> | ||
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| + | == At the outset of a new life == | ||
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| + | "At the very outset, there must be simplification and clarification. Your relationship with any | ||
| + | thing, person or place that is not essential or that is counterproductive will rob you of vision, energy, | ||
| + | purpose and meaning."<ref>''The Great Waves of Change'', Chapter 4: [http://www.newmessage.org/the-message/volume-4/great-waves-change/the-freedom-to-move-with-knowledge The Freedom to Move with Knowledge]</ref> | ||
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| + | == See also == | ||
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| + | *[[Questions to consider]] | ||
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| + | == Further study == | ||
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| + | *''Relationships & Higher Purpose'', Chapter 12: [https://www.newmessage.org/the-message/volume-2/relationships-higher-purpose/establishing-meaningful-relationships Establishing Relationships] | ||
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Latest revision as of 08:22, 18 August 2024
At the outset in committing to relationship
“The truth of any relationship can be known at the outset.”[1]
"At the outset it is necessary to learn discernment. Why spend five years finding out that you really cannot be married to this person when you could have found out in five days or, as your discernment becomes more refined, in five minutes? Many people say after five years, if they have discovered that their relationship cannot proceed and cannot grow, 'I knew this at the beginning, but I would not listen to what I knew.' They could see these elements in the other person, and they could see their incompatibilities, but they did not want to look because they wanted to be with that person. They wanted the experience of being together. They wanted to escape loneliness and isolation. Yet it is far better to be alone than to be improperly engaged with another. Improper engagement, if it is maintained, will destroy your motivation and your life force. This is very true."[2]
At the outset of a new life
"At the very outset, there must be simplification and clarification. Your relationship with any thing, person or place that is not essential or that is counterproductive will rob you of vision, energy, purpose and meaning."[3]
References
- ↑ Wisdom from the Greater Community Volume II, Chapter 6: Discernment
- ↑ Relationships & Higher Purpose, Chapter 12: Establishing Relationships
- ↑ The Great Waves of Change, Chapter 4: The Freedom to Move with Knowledge
See also
Further study
- Relationships & Higher Purpose, Chapter 12: Establishing Relationships